Those Who Hold You Up

“Don’t dwell on those who let you down, cherish those who hold you up.” — Mark Pothier

To all who uplift, a hearty thank you!

Russ

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I’m Nearly Pain Free

The meds have beaten back the attack and I’m nearly pain-free! Thank you all for your wishes and prayers. They were all greatly appreciated!

Russ

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To Give Light

Seen at wordsmith.org:

“What is to give light must endure burning.” -Viktor Frankl, author, neurologist and psychiatrist, Holocaust survivor (1905-1997)

Of all of his qualifications I believe it is being a “Holocaust survivor” that makes him most qualified to make such a comment. May the world never again experience such inhumanity toward anyone.

I tend to agree with his comment. The strongest steel requires forging in a very hot fire. Hearts that have never been broken may not truly know what it feels like to be heart-broken. Empathy and compassion are often greatly aided by shared similar experiences.

Russ

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Pet Humor

With apologies to Bella and DiDi as I’m sure they NEVER do any of these things! ;-D!

A friend forworded this email to me. The author is unknown to me.

The following was found posted very low on a refrigerator door.

Dear Dogs and Cats: The dishes on the floor with the paw prints are yours and contain your food. The other dishes are mine and contain my food. Placing a paw print in the middle of my plate does not mean that is suddenly your food, nor do I find that aesthetically pleasing in the slightest.

The stairway was not designed by NASCAR and is not a racetrack. Racing me to the top of the stairs is not the object. Tripping me doesn’t help because I fall faster than you can run.

I cannot buy anything bigger than a king sized bed. I am very sorry about this. Do not think I will continue sleeping on the couch to ensure your comfort. Dogs and cats can actually curl up in a ball when they sleep. It IS NOT necessary to sleep perpendicular to each other, stretched out to the fullest extent possible. (Note from Russ: Duke and Sadie are notorious for taking up as much real estate as possible when they sleep.) I also know that sticking tails straight out and having tongues hanging out on the other end to maximize space that you are taking up, is nothing but sarcasm.

For the last time, there is no secret exit from the bathroom! If, by some miracle, I beat you there and manage to get the door shut, it is not necessary to claw, whine, meow, try to turn the knob or get your paw under the edge in an attempt to open the door. I must exit through the same door I entered. Also, I have been using the bathroom for years – canine/feline attendance is not required.

The proper order for kissing is: Kiss me first, then go smell the other dog or cat’s (rear end). I cannot stress this enough.

Russ

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Hurtin’ For Certain

We all carry heavy loads, and I know that some of your loads are far heavier than mine, so this isn’t intended as a “Woe Is Me” post (though it may sound like it).

I have Trigeminal Neuralgia (TN) and am under a full-fledged attack. It is also known as The Suicide Disease and for good reason. The pain is so bad that I can see why people would do anything to make it end. By the way, Cluster Headaches are a different malady but are also known as The Suicide Disease.

I was diagnosed with TN about 6-12 months ago. The latest attack started late Monday night and has been unrelenting and intensifying. If anything touches one or more lower teeth on the left side of my jaw it creates what feels like a giant electric shock on the left side of my skull that lasts for quite a while. And when I say anything, I mean ANYTHING. Air, teeth touching when I close my jaw (and they are supposed to touch when the jaw closes), liquids, food, my tongue, etc. So it only hurts when I breath, eat, drink anything, well, you get the idea. A soggy Rice Krispie touched it this morning and I thought my head was going to explode. And the pain from hundreds of jolts per day lingers so it feels like non-stop intense pain. (OK, I guess this is turning into a “Woe Is Me” post. I apologize!).

I share this with you because many of you have become friends and I believe that friends should share important things in life with each other. I also want you to know because the pain is so bad that it is likely to severely reduce the number and quality of my posts, and the turnaround time on responding to your questions or comments, and your posts. I may also reply sharply at innapproporiate times. I apologize in advance in case I do. If it happens, please know that it is the pain talking.

With love,

Russ

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Baggage

OOPS! I first saw the reblog by MoJo who reblogged it from Mimi but somehow missed the MoJo part when I ended up at the Waiting for the Karma Truck site. I apologize for my oversight, MoJo. Thank you both! This is short and wonderful! Much wisdom in few words.
Russ

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I’ve written about my view that no one gets past the age of thirty without carrying some emotional baggage.  I think I also noted that after a while  you can choose which bags you may still need to carry and which you really need to leave on the side of the road (please don’t donate them – nobody needs what’s in this luggage).

So here’s a question for you to begin your day – if you had the chance to carry all the splendor of light on your back, you’d clearly have to let go of some stuff.  What are you going to let go of?  It’s time.

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For Those Who Could Use A Laugh or Smile Today

From: http://www.mikeysFunnies.com

An out-of-towner drove his car into a ditch in a desolated area. Luckily, a local farmer came to help with his big strong horse, named Buddy. He hitched Buddy up to the car and yelled, “Pull, Nellie, pull!” Buddy didn’t move.

Then the farmer hollered, “Pull, Buster, pull!” Buddy didn’t respond.

Once more the farmer commanded, “Pull, Coco, pull!”

Nothing.

Then the farmer nonchalantly said, “Pull, Buddy, pull!” And the horse easily dragged the car out of the ditch.

The motorist was most appreciative and very curious. He asked the farmer why he called his horse by the wrong name three times.

The farmer said, “Oh, Buddy is blind and if he thought he was the only one pulling, he wouldn’t even try.”

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A cop just knocked on my door and told me my dogs were chasing people on bikes. My dogs don’t even own bikes!

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“PASS IT ON!
Yeah, you can send this Funny to anybody you want. And, if you’re REAL nice, you’ll tell them where you got it! http://www.mikeysFunnies.com”

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I really like this view of grandparenting from a youngster. The last line of this piece was stunning and the last 8 words hung in the air echoing…
Russ

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An Award & Some Things About Me That You May Find Interesting

Thank you Grandmother Musings at http://grandmothermusings.com/ for nominating and for and presenting this blog with The Inspiring Blogger Award. I enjoy her blog and recommend that you check it out.

One of the requests is to share 7 things about myself that my readers may find interesting. OK, here goes:

1. I was named after the little boy Rusty in the 1950’s in the TV show called RinTinTin.

2. I have Trigeminal Neuralgia. Along with Cluster headaches, the two maladies are known as the Suicide Diseases because they can be so painful that they’ve been know to drive…well, I think you get the idea. No worries, I don’t plan to go anywhere!

3. Both of my lungs kept collapsing–but not at the same time or I wouldn’t be here to tell you about it– when I was in my late teens and I needed surgery on both lungs that required spreading my ribs wide enough so that three hands could work inside my chest.

4. I’m a successful songwriter/lyricist who can’t sing, play an instrument, or read music. Most of my–actually our because they were all co-written with others–7 songs have been “picked up” by various music industry execs, but none have been “cut”–and “picked up is the first step in a long series of steps that most often goes nowhere, but many writers have never had a single song picked up so I’m proud of what we’ve accomplished so far. The reason I’m successful–by my definition (which is the only one I care about)–is that I love to write lyrics and I’m loving the adventure. To me that is what success is all about.

5. I am the founder of a successful investment management firm. It too started out as a hobby. I found I had a passion for investing, and a knack for it. Friends and family started giving their money to me to invest for them, and they suggested that I get into it as a profession. It took a lot of nagging, err, I mean enthusiastic suggestions, but they convinced me to come out of retirement, and I eventually did. I did it for free because I loved it so much, and now I’m getting paid to do what I loved to do for free. Life is good! Actually, I intentially have no minimum amount of assets requirements–which tends to be quite unusual in my line of work because most firms find that it is unprofitable to manage accounts or Clients with assets below a fairly high threshold. My firm takes a different approach. We don’t enforce any minimum. In that way people with small amounts of money can still get customized service. The end result is that about a third of the accounts we manage are not financially profitable for my firm. They are however, spiritually profitable, and I’m happy to do it.

6. One of my dreams was retiring early. I founded a company in 1988 that allowed me to essentially retire at the height of the dotcom boom when I was about 42 years old. My dream quickly became a nightmare as I found mysef very bored. I volunteered in an elementary school as a reading coach for youngsters who struggled with that subject, and taught subjects related to investing as a volunteer in a high school class, and while I found those activities to be valuable and somewhat interesting, I was still bored. The boredom was a great gift. I was able to learn very early that I wasn’t suited for retirement so I should find what I love to do, and then do it and never retire. That is why I let my friends and family talk me into offering my investment management services professionally. I’ve never regetted it since, and still love it! As it turns out, although the business that I’d founded in 1988 survived the dotcom bust, it never fully recovered, and I closed that business about 3 years ago. As that business had been the source of my income for early retirement, it turns out that it was fortuitous that I’d founded my investment business in early 2003.

7. I’ve been self-employed in a variety of businesses for nearly my whole adult life, starting when I was seventeen.

8. I’ve wanted to be a father and grandfather since I was in fourth grade. Since my early teens I’ve wanted to have two biological children and then begin adopting children who were physically disabled or from other countries and races. My Beloved shared the same dreams and they came true. She and I had two biological children and adopted a child from another country and race. Our family of 5 comprises races from 3 continents.

9. I initially started my blog simply as a way to share my songwriting adventure and songs, but I found that I love writing even more than songwriting so the blog has morphed into what you experience today.

OK, I know that is more than the 7 items requested, but I was on a roll and just kept going. I hope you found something of interest among these factoids.

I was also supposed to mention blogs I like, but I tend to already do that in various ways from reblogging, awards, shout-outs, etc, several times every week, so if you are interested in learning my favorite blogs “stay tuned”–that’s an old-timer saying meaning please stick around. ;-D!

Russ

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I’m re-blogging a post from the fledgling blog of my oldest son–the one who along with his wife gave to me the best birthday gift ever by announcing she was pregnant, and then later bringing our first grandchild into our world. Due to that grandchild and his job, Eldest Son is rarely able to spend time writing, so I’m glad that he was able to write the post I’m reblogging. As the father of the two boys who were beating each other with sticks, I’m going to defend myslf by saying that I must have been at work when this occurred and no eyes were poked out in the process! ;-D!
Russ

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My brother and I were knights—for a week or maybe more.

I was really too old to still be playing at such games, but my brother, three years younger was probably the right age.  From random geometrically cut plywood slabs forgotten in the woodpile we made shields.  Leather straps held them to our forearms, loosely, like flapping window shutters.  Mine was a triangle, his a circle.  Both we painted white.  We took care to add devices.  A patch of an almost peaceful, serene blue served for his and a bend of blue and gold for mine.  They took two days to craft and we made them as if we would keep them mounted over our mantel forever.

Three foot long dowels were left unpainted and lacked hilts.  We were too much in earnest I think.  We just wore gardening gloves for gauntlets instead. 

We were both knights or perhaps just…

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