How the Meeting with My New Co-Writer Went

The first hour or so of the meeting was spent with my asking questions about the industry and Kevin answering them. Some of the questions were regarding various ways one can make money in the business. (I’m a businessman and investment manager and sometimes I just can’t help myself). Not surprisingly, the answers I received went something like this:

It has become very hard for almost everybody to make money in any aspect of the business. Only a very small percentage (fractions of a percent) of people in the business can make a living at it. A few make a LOT of money, some good ones make some money, and most don’t make anything. Every angle is a long-shot, but if one is good and aims carefully, and takes a LOT of shots over an extended period of time, some money can be made (probably most likely in films and TV). Of course, cumulative expenses can easily be greater than cumulative income even for many people who receive payments for some of their work.

That information is consistent with what I saw at the conference. Nearly all of the ones who I felt were very good songwriters had been writing songs for at least 10 years and had either had songs cut or songs included in films or TV, but none of them were making a full-time living at it. Virtually all were retired from other industries or had day jobs.

From what I can gather, the ad market (writing songs for ads) is very strictly controlled by a few powerful companies or dead. So much for that idea!

My idea regarding writing hooks or portions of songs in 15-30 second clips for possible inclusion in films and TV shows also died an ignoble death. Even when the execs only use 15-30 seconds of a song in films and TV-land, they still want full songs from which to choose.

Oh, well. Now I know.

We then spent about 45 minutes going over a couple of drafts of partial songs I’d written. He liked them both and we talked about how to make them stronger songs and the direction with which to take them.

So, I’m working on two songs based on that meeting:

“The Man Of Few Words” -What started out as a story about a generic wise man and had been somewhat lecturing will hopefully morph into a story about the singer’s father being a man of few words but who could make those words count. Someone who with a mere look could speak volumes, and when he speaks quietly in a crowded room, others stop to listen to what he has to say. Or something along those lines.

And what had been “Shadow Of Our Love” will have a title change because the current one boxes the story in too tightly. The current new direction is about a man in a relationship that had been full of passion but has become passionless. He begins to realize his part in the process and begins to make changes in his behavior. Will it be enough or has the fire burned out? Stay tuned!

And then there is the new song that I began today tentatively titled, “My Old Friend” which is a tribute to my dog Duke and the love between humans and dogs everywhere. I hope to have/make time to write the first near-complete draft of this song and discuss it with my new co-writer Kevin at our next scheduled meeting on Monday afternoon.

I’m also working with Denis Loiseau on a project currently titled “I’ve Already Won”. More about that later.

That’s it for now, dear friends. Thank you for coming along for the ride!

Russ

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For Those Who Could Use A Laugh: Choose Your Password Wisely

(Caution: This joke is a bit off-color in that it uses the 5-letter word for a male appendage. Please do not read this post if a joke containing that word will offend you. It is not my intention to do so. While this site is not known for off-color jokes, I thought this one sufficiently benign for adults to warrrant inclusion. If I’m wrong, please say so.)

A lady helps her man install a new computer.

Once it is completed,

she tells him to select a password,

a word that he’ll always remember.

as the computer asks him to enter it,

he looks at his wife and with a macho

gesture and a wink in his eye, he selects

a word but he is annoyed with her reaction,

when he selects: penis.

As he hits “enter”, to validate the selection,

his wife collapses with laughter and

rolls on the floor in hysteria

The computer had replied:

“Too short–Access Denied!”

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Loyalty That Knows No Bounds

I just read a most amazing story about a dog named Capitan who has kept watch over his human’s grave for six years. While that’s incredible all by itself, there’s more to this story. A LOT more.

When his human died Capitan–who had never been taken to the cemetery where is human was interred–ran away from home and found his way to the graveyard. He walked all over the cemetery until he found his human’s gravesite. And he has stayed there for 6 years.

The family tried a few times to bring Capitan home, but he always found his way back. Eventually, the cemetery staffers began feeding him. He sometimes roams around the graveyard during the day, but at 6pm sharp he is always at his human’s gravesite and spends the night there, guarding his beloved friend.

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/dog-stands-guard-over-deceased-owner-grave-six-190556479.html

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Cheerios Fun With Younguns

My Beloved is a genius. She used Cheerios in various ways to raise our children. Between meals, when they were hungry, she put some Cheerios onto their high chair trays. It gave them something to do, to play with, and eat while helping them to develop their fine motor skills. It’s not easy to pick up individual Cheerrios laying on their sides when one is of a young high chair age.

But my favorite way she used Cheerios was when she potty-trained our boys to urinate “the way Daddy does”. It became very obvious very quickly that left to their own creativity and aim urine would soon be all over the wall and floor–and everything in between. So, Beloved threw a couple of Cheerios in the toilet bowl to give them something to practice aiming at. It made going to the bathroom fun and quickly improved their aim.

And it encouraged Younger Son to pee into the toilet instead of into the cat litter box next to it.

As I said, My Beloved’s a genius.

Russ

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Grateful Generosity

I just saw a post from I Stop For Suffering (I love that site) that showed a photo of a man holding a cardboard sign that read:

“I have a job, I have a home. Could YOU use $5?”

Now that’s what I call grateful generosity!

Russ

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My Old Friend

I plan to soon send posts about the very productive meeting with my newest song co-writer, and about Cheerios Fun With Younguns, but right now I wanted to briefly share with you a decision I’ve just made.

I plan to write a song about my dog. I’m not yet sure what it’s title will be but I’m leaning toward, “My Old Friend.”

Many of you who have followed this blog for awhile know that I love my dog dearly. Duke follows me everywhere. When I’m sick in bed for days he lays next to me virtually the whole time with only a rare brief break when nature calls and sometimes to eat, but otherwise he stays with me non-stop. I couldn’t ask for a more loyal friend.

I’d rather live in a cardboard box with Duke than live in a mansion without him. While that probably sounds absurd to many people, those who know me best know the truth in it. I never, ever, abandon a friend. And Duke is one of my best friends.

Russ

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My Subconscious Mind Is a Real Pest Sometimes, But Can Be Handy to Have Around

I was awakened about two hours before I planned to get up this morning by ideas that would not let me sleep.

It must have occurred to my subconscious mind as I slept that I’m wired to work on small and short projects and a lot of them. Songwriting tends to be a series of coming up with a good idea and then writing and then re-writing it to life. For example, my first draft of “Shadow Of Our Love” was written thirteen months ago. That’s an eternity to me.

And while there are plenty of things about songwriting that I’m still learning and/or am very weak or mediocre at, one thing I’m naturally very strong at is writing hooks. A hook is a word or a phrase that is catchy, fresh, memorable, easy to sing, and encapsulates the gist of the song. It usually becomes the song’s title and is repeated in the chorus. It is a key part of the song that the listener learns first and sings along with.

I’m a master at generating hooks. I know that sounds arrogant—and probably is—but I’ve been told by senior songwriters that I’m very good at it. Once as a fun experiment, I timed myself to see how many high-quality hooks I could come up with in an hour. I believe the final count was 40-45. And my co-writer, senior songwriter Denis Loiseau said the hooks were not only quite good but he looked them up and they appeared to be unique. That combination of quality and uniqueness is quite rare. Combined with quantity, it is a key thing I bring to my co-writers.

Many songwriters struggle to come up with hooks, and some only come up with one or two per year.

And I’m meeting with my new co-writer to begin working on a song together for the first time today–a co-writer who makes a substantial part of his living getting song placements into films and TV shows, often 15-30 seconds clips at a time.

So, my sub-conscious must have been putting all of these thoughts together in my brain and come up with some ideas that it liked so much that it didn’t want to wait to share them with me when I awakened in the morning.

While that can be inconvenient when I need the sleep, if my sub-conscious recall is anything like my conscious recall I’m glad it woke me to tell me right away before it forgot.

My subconscious also knows that I can run a long time on idea-adrenaline, and who needs to sleep, anyway? I keep telling it, that actually, I do. I function much better on eight hours of sleep—and have a much more pleasant disposition when I’ve had enough of it. But my self-conscious has a mind of its own and can be a real persistent pest at times.

Anyway, I got to thinking (notice how my conscious mind is beginning to claim credit for ideas that my sub-conscious mind came up with; seems to me it should be shared, like with a co-writer) maybe my hook-creating ability combined with my short-term multi-project focus could be put to better use creating phrases or song clip ideas.

So I plan to discuss with my new co-writer the possibility of writing hooks or portions of songs that evoke the kinds of emotions that whole songs become, but instead of always writing entire songs, perhaps it makes sense to consider having some of our projects involve writing only partial-songs (and a lot more of them) that tied to his music could be put into extensive music libraries for possible inclusion into films, TV, and advertising campaigns.

After all, phrases such as “The Best Part Of Waking Up”, “Like A Rock” “Have It Your Way”, and “Built To Last” are not only very successful advertising slogans, they are great hooks, and some started out as songs built around those hooks.

As I understand it, Barry Manilow (another Canadian—Oh, Canada!) got his start and/or made it big doing that. One of his songs or jingles was used by McDonald’s for years and launched him. I hear that it didn’t hurt his bank account either. (Hey, I’m not against money—after all I’m an investment manager—I‘ve just learned that it isn’t money that makes me happy.)

There are many unknowns about this idea and it could be impractical and perhaps even unworkable for 100 different reasons. Another is that I may be pitching it to the wrong person. It might not fit into his plans, interests, and/or skill set.
I plan to also present some first drafts of ideas for full songs to him, because whether the sub-song ideas work out I still plan to write complete songs too.

I see the two ideas as being potentially not only compatible but complementary. There have been plenty of times where I’ve come up with a song idea I got excited about but was only create about half a song out of it. I’d love to find a way to use such projects too. They are dead until listeners bring them to life.

But what the heck! If I’m doing what I love and am having fun, I’ve already won!

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$700,000 Happy Ending For Bullied Bus Monitor

A Canadian man who thought he’d be able to raise $5,000 to send on vacation a 68 year old woman who had been bullied by students while doing her job as a bus monitor has actually raised over $700,000. A huge check was given to her in a ceremony in Toronto.

She retired.

I love happy endings.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/bullied-ny-bus-monitor-700000-canadian-17210725

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You Are A BIG Part Of My Inspiration

Thank you. All of you. Those of you who read but don’t comment provide an audience for my work. Nearly all creative people want to share their work. You give to me an opportunity to do so and I’m grateful.

Those of you who read and often comment are a BIG part of my inspiration. You support me in so many ways and I feel a part of a loving, vibrant, talented, creative, mutually supportive community that I cherish. You have become important friends in my life and for you I’m very grateful.

Thank you also for your patience. Although I attempt to rapidly reply to your comments, add new posts, and read your posts and blogs, my response times often lag well beyond what I’d prefer. I apologize to you for that.

I also want to thank you, dear friends, for giving to me a place to be myself. Yes, I started the blog, but without you it would be no more than a private diary. Because of YOUR love, encouragement, and support I’ve been able to open up and to stretch as never before. I’ll be eternally grateful for all that you’ve given to me.

And I’m not just opening up more with you. I’m doing it more in other aspects of my life too. I’ve even decided to focus most of my songwriting going forward based on who I am at my core. For example, our last song was about a woman who is angry at being cheated on. I’m not a woman, and I haven’t been cheated on since I was dating over 35 years ago. In retrospect, it seems presumptuous and silly to try to write a song which feels authentic to the listener about that topic.

So, most of my songwriting going forward will be focused on what I know the most about, from my perspective, heart, gut, and spirit. It won’t be for everyone–no music ever is anyway. But I’m going to focus on writing stuff that I would love as a listener. I figure that with the internet, others who love the same thing will find my songs, rather than my chasing a market because some industry execs say that is what I’m supposed to do to have a shot at the brass ring. Besides I’m doing it for fun, so no matter what I do, if I keep having fun, “I’ve Already Won”. (If that phrase sounds familiar, it’s because I’ve used it with some frequency lately, and it has become kind of a life motto and mantra. So with this change in focus, I thought it was the perfect title for my newest song, “I’ve Already Won”.

My other current songwriting project is “Shadow Of Our Love”. The first draft was written months ago and doesn’t really fit so much into what I was just talking about as a change of focus, but I like and plan to finish it.

So, what is my current songwriting focus and niche? Well, some my earlier lyrics were called “Norman Rockwell-esque Americana”. Sometimes it was even said as a compliment. However the comments were intended, I took them as a major compliment because I’m a huge fan of Rockwell’s work. I’m also someone who cries at sentimental films and songs. And some songs are so beautiful that they even give the chills to me (in a good way). So what the heck, that’s who I am, and that’s what touches me, so I plan to attempt to write songs that would bring tears to my eyes, and ideally even give the chills to me.

So, the adventure continues. Thank you for coming along for the ride, and for who you are, and all you share with me!

If we’re having fun, we’ve already won.

Russ

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Day 2 and a Project/Co-Writer Update

Day two of the conference was also excellent, but more for the industry contacts and networking and for hearing some fantastic music and learning, rather than for pick-ups. Our song was presented only once on Sunday and didn’t fit for what the exec needed so wasn’t picked up, but two other execs picked up songs on Sunday that were on the same CD as our song, so they may hear our song anyway.

I just sent a first draft of a song I wrote today to my co-writer Denis Loiseau who was my collaborator on “No More Secrets/No More Lies”. The title is “I’ve Already Won”. He likes it a lot and we’re going to co-write it.

In the meantime, Kevin Harris and I are scheduled to meet on Wednesday to begin co-writing our first song together. It’s called “Shadow Of Our Love”. Some of you saw a post with the first draft of that song a few months ago. Kevin has been in the music industry for a long time as a musician, producer, songwriter, and vocalist. His name is on credits for quite a number of films and TV shows, often for pieces of the background music. His studio produced the demo for “No More Secrets/No More Lies”. I’m looking forward to creating with him, and I’m certain I’ll learn a lot.

For those of you who are getting tired of the songwriting focus of recent posts, I plan to write regarding a wider variety of of subjects this week. Thank you for your patience!

Russ

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