“A Vehicle for Awakening”

“Your body is precious. It is our vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care.” –Buddha

(Source: Samuel “Gentoku” McCree via tinybuddha @ http://tinybuddha.com/blog/5-powerful-things-to-do-for-yourself-when-youre-sick/)

“A vehicle for awakening!” Wow, what a wise and beautiful way to view our bodies.

Russ

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My Poetry

Hi everyone. This post is an elaboration of a reply I gave to a relatively new reader of my blog’s comment along the lines of that he likes poetry and wishes he could write it too. I thought you might be interested in reading my reply to him as I’ve subjected you to a sizable number of my poems since the first one I wrote recently.

I have no idea what I’m doing with poetry. I just started writing it in the last month or two. I could be the worst poet on the planet for all I know. I never took a class in it, so for example, I have no idea whether I should include punctuation, rhymes, where or how to rhyme, whether near-rhymes and contractions are ok, etc.

I just write from the heart and attempt to tell true stories in ways that hopefully don’t sound too awful. I figure that like everything else, some will like it and some won’t. That’s good enough for me as I endeavor to get better at it.

Over time, if I get increasing numbers of “likes” I might guess that more people actually like what I write. I noticed that for my first several poems my “like” counts appeared to me to be way down for my poetry versus for my other types of posts. I’d say that so far that ISN’T a good sign! ;-D! But I figure that I won’t be good at most things that I initially pick up and try, and if I let that–or feedback regarding same–stop me from trying to improve I’ll never know how good I might become in any number of areas. For example, I only started writing songs about 3 years ago.

Please check out the “Songs I’ve Written or Co-Written” category of this blog and you’ll be able to hear the songs I’ve created and co-created.

If I’d have let other people’s opinions tastes, and preferences be the deciding factor in continuing to write songs, I probably wouldn’t have written more than one.

At the same time, my approach doesn’t help me to understand when I’m actually improving or when I should begin to focus on other things. It is my hope that readers will be patient as I attempt to improve, but at some point will tell me–perhaps via email at russtowne@yahoo.com–that perhaps I might want to consider focusing on other things. It is a tough balance to know when a friend should kindly make that suggestion. But I trust my friends’ wisdom on such matters and know that they will be kind when they crush the bud of talent that I’m attempting to grow, err, I mean, tell me when what I’m doing stinks and isn’t getting any better.

In all seriousness, if my poetry, songs, stories, or other writing fall into the latter category and show no sign of improving, I hope that you, my dear online friends will let me know.

Russ

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The First


She whispered, “I like you”
That’s all the prompting I’d need
As we stood in the shade
Of a towering tree

We were both new at this
And acted kind of shy
When we leaned toward each other
We quickly closed our eyes

Because on that bright sunny day
When we shared our first kiss
She was only five years old
And I was only six.
–Russ Towne

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My Daily Fix

One ought, every day at least, to hear a little song, read a good poem, see a fine picture and, if it were possible, speak a few reasonable words. -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, poet, dramatist, novelist, and philosopher (1749-1832) (Source: A.Word.A.Day by Anu Garg)

Sounds like good advice to me! Luckily I have lots of wonderful blogging friends from whom to get my daily fix of all those things!

Russ

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Getting Into The Spirit

My Beloved and I just came back from our weekly Date Night after a nice dinner out and then driving around seeing some neighborhoods with amazing Christmas light displays. But none quite as amazing as the house linked or URL’d (if it isn’t a word, it should be!) below.

http://www.flixxy.com/best-christmas-lights-display.htm#.UMVjfkKEzzI

Russ

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Every Chance That I Get

I don’t know what tomorrow will bring
Or even how today will end
But I do know that of all of my blessings
The greatest are my family and friends.
I could live a long life or die a second from now
So I take every chance that I get
To tell all of them of my gratitude and love
So I won’t leave this world with regrets.
–Russ Towne

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Dream-Kiss

I work from home and have no commute, so My Beloved often leaves for work before I rise in the morning. That leads to a morning ritual that I love:

The Dream-Kiss

Asleep in our bed
So soft and warm.
A gentle touch
On my shoulder
Tells me she’s there.
My head slightly lifts
Sleepy eyes barely open.
She kisses my lips
Whispers “I love you”
Then is gone.
–Russ Towne

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A Knock on the Door

A reader named Bill just mentioned the singing group called The Temptations, and that made me think about a post I’d created last year involving one of their songs, so I thought I’d re-post it for newer readers:

A Knock On the Door

About eight years ago our 25th wedding anniversary was coming soon and I wanted to honor My Beloved and celebrate our anniversary in a special way. What I had in mind was to have some men help me to surprise and serenade her. I figured that it would be very special if even a few men helped up to do it, but when I asked for help, I was surprised and very pleased when eleven men showed up on very short notice!

What happened next was largely due to the good ideas they came up with to make the experience even more memorable.

My wife heard a knock on the door and when she opened it, she was surprised to see me on one knee directly in front of her, with 11 men forming a semi-circle behind me. We were each holding a long-stemmed red rose and began singing a rousing rendition of the Temptations song, “My Girl” to her. It even included some cool (or should I say “GROOVY!?”) dance moves that the men had come up with and practiced at another location just prior to the knock on the door! We sang to her accompanied by a boom box playing the song.

Our audience grew as neighbors came out to see what was going on. They clapped and cheered us on.

When the song and dance were finished, each man in turn stepped forward and handed a long-stemmed red rose to My Beloved, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and congratulated her. I then gave a bouquet of 25 long-stemmed red roses—-one for each year of our marriage—-to her along with a big hug and kiss.

The kindness and thoughtfulness of the men helped to create a truly magical and memorable evening. While I’d known some of the men for years, I’d only recently met some of the others. They had driven up to two hours round trip in heavy commute traffic to be there for the relatively brief experience. They all had other things that they could have been doing. Some had families waiting for them at their homes for dinner. Others took time off from work.

They weren’t professional singers or performers; just regular men who gave a special gift to a special woman and me.

I’m very grateful to have My Beloved and such men in my life.

Russ

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Holiday Party Humor

Some tongue-in-cheek advice for those wo are going to their company’s holiday party:

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/23-rules-of-the-office-holiday-party-160949404.html

My favorite:

There are two types of company holiday parties. There are company holiday parties in which employees bring their spouses or significant others and perhaps their adorable little kids, and then there are the company holiday parties in which employees typically go alone. Friends and family parties end promptly at 9 p.m. and everyone gets home safely. Employees-only company parties usually last 36 hours and result in at least six people being reported as missing.

Russ

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Diana’s post is full of wisdom and kindness, and she says it so beautifully and powerfully that I wanted to share it with you.
Russ

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Everyone is gifted, but some people never open their package ~ unknown

When I’m tired and have had enough…

when I’m sure I don’t have what it takes…

You amaze me.believe

Your gifts and talents

Your passion, your dreams…

They inspire me, I’m drawn to your strengths.

I know you don’t always believe in them…

that some days are harder than others.

You wonder, “What was I thinking? What made me think this would work?”

Even your cracks, your doubts; draw me.

They reveal your humanity, they make me feel normal.

If you can do what you do…

If you continue to pursue your dreams in spite of your fears…

If doing what is right trumps your self-doubt…

You give me strength to follow through on my dreams.

You give me hope that there is a way…

that determination, passion and love lend their courage to achieve the impossible.

That dreams inspire…

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