Being Kinder in What You Say, One Word at a Time

Being Kinder in What You Say, One Word at a Time.

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It’s the Little Things…

Late yesterday afternoon I was using a garden hose to hand-water a rose bush. It was thirsty, so I stood in one place as the stream showered its liquid life on the plant. To my right, about four feet away is about a ten-foot tall plant covered in beautiful purple flowers.

As I silently stood admiring it, out of the corner of my eye a litle feathery flash flew into the tall bush.

I stood motionless to see if the little bird might show itself again.

To my delight and surprise first one, then two, and soon a total of six little feathered friends showed themselves as they danced from branch to branch as if to a merry tune that only they could hear.

One even jumped onto one of the top branches of the rose bush I was watering. I made sure that the spray never quite reached the bird but put the stream close enough so a little mist could cool the little creature. It was clear he was enjoying himself immensely. He even scratched his cheek by rubbing it on a stem.

I knew the magic would end as soon as I moved to water the next rose bush, so I lingered a bit. Soaking up the moment and making a memory.

Then I moved, and in a flash they were gone.

Russ

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Flash Mob Marriage Proposal

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Flash-Mob of Heroes: “We’re Not Going To Leave You Here To Burn!”

I just read of a woman and her disabled sister who were trapped in their vehicle after a bad accident. It caught fire and neither could get out.

Fortunately for them, some people saw the accident, and flagged down truckers and other motorists, and a flash-mob of people risked their lives to try to save the women.

The driver was trapped behind the steering wheel in the wreckage and was panicking. The group of heroic strangers put their own lives at risk and yelled “We’re not going to leave you here to burn!”

People poured water from ice chests, and then garden hoses, and even a huge conrete mixer truck began pouring water all over the vehicle to try to keep the fire down as it crept toward the trpped driver.

The crowd was able to get the disabled sister out first, and then kept fighting to save the driver.

They eventually were able to pull her safely from the car.

It is reactions like this from a large group total strangers risking their lives and working together to help those in trouble that makes me optimistic in the future of humanity.

Russ

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I Got A Liebster! What’s a Liebster?

Judysp kindly nominated me for the Liebster award in her blog A Daily Thought at http://judysp.wordpress.com/. I highly recommend that you check out her thought-provoking, touching, and fun blog.

I cut and pasted most of her post below:

“What is a Liebster? The meaning: Liebster is German and means sweetest, kindest, nicest, dearest, beloved, lovely, kind, pleasant, valued, cute, endearing, and welcome.” (Russ: Are you sure you have the right person, Judy? OK, I like what I’ve read so far! Thank you, Judy!)

“So what do we have to do to show our appreciation?” (Russ: Have I said lately how much I dislike being told what to do? ;-D! )

“1.Answer the questions that the tagger set for you plus create 11 questions for the people you’ve tagged to answer. (Russ: OK, did that, please see below)

2.Choose 11 bloggers and link them in your post. (Russ: I mention several bloggers each week and reblog posts, etc, so I’m going to plan to just keep spreadng the love that way.)

3.Go to their page and tell them.” (Russ: Pease see my response to #2 above.)

“The Questions for Nominees:” (Russ: I put my answers next to them.)

1. Name a book you would read over and over again?” Ender’s Game and Jonathan Livingston Seagull. I’ve read them both probably 3 or 4 times and will probably read them again.

2. If you could have 3 wishes granted, what would they be? 1. That people who are working to help the world succeed in doing so. 2. That people who are not working to help the world become enlightened and begin to do so. 3. That everyone find lasting joy and inner peace.

3. Who was your favorite teacher and why? My 4th Grade teacher Miss Forrest (because I had a crush on her. But then she went off and got married breaking my heart forever so I’ll come up with a different answer): It was a teacher in 7th grade. I’m embarassed to admit that I no longer remember her name (it was after all 45 years ago and she was one of 7 teachers I had that year). She was a sweet lady in her late 50’s or early 60’s who was respectful and nice but could still come up with a zinger from out of left field. I remember once that we were discussing the book “Snow White” and she made a comment along the lines of “She wasn’t snow white if she’d been living with seven men!” The comment was so unlike her classroom persona that I was amazed by it. But the primary reason she was my favorite teacher is that she got me interested in reading again. She didn’t do what most teachers did which is to jam a specific book down our throats and make us read it. That’s a great way to kill any possible enthusiasm from me about any book–or anything else for that matter! Instead, she had a large bookcase full of a great variety of interesting books and said we could select whichever one we wanted to read (and of course report on.) I found a book called “Where Eagles Dare” by British author Alistair MacLean. I loved it and have been reading ever since–including reading that one a few times over the years.

4. Where is your favorite vacation spot? Green Gables, a gorgeous Victorian Bed and Breakfast over-looking the ocean (Monterey Bay) in Pacific Grove just a few blocks from Monterey, California, and quite near Carmel-By-The-Sea, Pebble Beach, and Point Lobos. Our favorite room has kind of a semi-open balcony with a bed from which we can hear the delightfully powerful pounding of waves on jagged picturesque rocks and enjoy the refreshing smell of the ocean mist as it filters in all night, under a canopy of stars and bathed in the magical glow of the moon. We love it so much that we sometimes stay in our romantic hideaway for days despite some of the world’s most beautiful scenery being neaarby.

5. What chore do you absolutely hate doing? I’m a basically very lazy person so there is a LONG list of chores that I absolutely hate doing, but the ones that often top my list are those that need to be done frequently. And painting.

6. What personality traits do you dislike in other people? The personality traits I dislike in others are the same ones I most dislike in myself (in no particular order): Arrogance, unkindness, sarcasm, greed, selfishness, apathy, envy, meaness, rudeness, and impatience.

7. What is your least favorite mode of transportation? I suspect that I haven’t experienced it yet, but being in a glider on a very hot day under a glass canopy experiencing huge and sudden downdrafts, and hang-gliding/bouncing/dragging would probably be tied at this point.

8. If you could witness any event past, present or future, what would it be? The exact moment when the last hungry person is fed, the last ill person is healed, the last lonely person feels connected and loved, the last impoverished person has all their basic needs met, the last sad person finds lasting joy, and the last heart-broken person finds their soul mate.

9. What did you do growing up that got you into trouble? I got caught in a dark parking lot behind a closed store fogging up windows with a gal (who was above the age of consent!)

10. When you have 30 minutes of free-time, how do you pass the time? Be with My Beloved, play with Duke, play with my grandson when he is around, talk with a friend, blog, analyze investment ideas, tend to my small redwood grove and fern garden, read, or watch TV.

11. What movie do you flat-out refuse to watch, no matter how good people say it is? I like happy endings, so the best way to keep me from watching a movie is to tell me it has a sad ending. And movies where someone is dying and takes the whole movie to do it. I watch movies to escape and be uplifted, not get buried in sadness. I’m not saying there aren’t great sad movies, I’m just not into watching them.

Thank you again for honoring me with this award, Judy.

You know, if this keeps up, I’m not going to have any secrets left. You all will end up hearing what I had for breakfast and that won’t be fun for any of us! ;-D!

Russ

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Nature’s Beauty and Other Images

Splendide Slide Show

I found these photos to be stunning and wanted to share them with you.

Russ

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May your life be like a wild flower… growing freely in the beauty and joy of each day.
– Native American Proverb

Or, if you prefer:

May your life be like a wild stallion running freely in the beauty and joy of each day.
– Me

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Thank You Diane! & More About Me (Aren’t You Getting Tired of Hearing About Me Yet?)

Yesterday I received this wonderful meassage from Diane at writerwaannabe763 and HomeToGo232.wordpress.com:

“Hi Russ… Hope you are well..I’ve nominated you for the Kreativ Blog Award Diane. Should you wish to see details and/or participate details are at http://hometogo232.wordpress.com/2012/08/14/humility-tested/ Diane

“The rules/suggestions for this award are:

1. Say something about the person who nominated you (if you’re so inclined)

2. Answer the 10 questions included about yourself.

3. Nominate bloggers for this award (or as determined by yourself)

4. Advise nominees you have done so.

5. Place logo on your site.

What’s your favorite song? “What A Wonderful World”

What’s your favorite dessert? Burgundy Cherry Ice Cream

What ticks you off? Unkindness, bullying, apathy.

What do you do when you’re upset? It depends on the situation. If someone has done something that I allow to upset me, I notice normally very quickly how I’m feeling and perhaps acting, then I count my blessings, think of times I’ve accidentally done the same or something similar to someone else, smile (I find it’s hard to stay mad when I smile), and/or watch a comedy, and forgive or forget the person and/or ask what the gift is and what I can learn from the situation. If I’m upset because someone I love is being threatened or harmed, then all bets are off and I do whatever it takes to protect them as best I can or die trying. I’ve discovered that I have a formidable fierceness and fearlessness at such times.

Which is your favorite pet? My constant companion, a Chocolate Lab named Duke.

Which do you prefer, black or white? The night sky is magnificent because it is full of both black and white. I love them both.

What’s your biggest fear? I answered this in a bit more detail in an earlier post, but some huge fears I have are wasting precious moments of life by not appreciating all the beauty and greatness all around me, not seizing opportunities to help others, forgetting to show everyone how much they mean to me, and wasting opportunities to inspire others to see their own greatness and potential.

What’s your attitude, mostly? Life is a gift and a miracle. It’s a learning adventure with a lot of little and large lessons available to me every moment of every day. If I’m not savoring every second, passionately experiencing that which is important to me, finding ways to help lift the spirits of others, and living every day as if it were my last, I’m literally wasting life.

What is perfection? Much of Nature’s beauty, the spirit in each of us when the layers/filters/blinders have been removed, the love and loyalty of a good dog, the knowledge of having a soul mate, the feeling of connectedness when a great kindness has been experienced, giving the last of one’s food to another when no more food is likely, pure love and kindness when no possibility of material gain will occur, giving anonomously, the chirping of birds in the morning, sunrises and sunsets, being there for someone without needing to be asked, ego-less love and kindness.

What’s your guilty pleasure? Eating junk food and not exercising enough.

Diane kindly and generously added: “Russ is not only a dedicated writer about many wonderful and inspirational topics but is a faithful reader of others’ blogs as well. Please visit him at his site https://russtowne.com/about/”

Thank you, Diane!

Russ

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Kindness Behind the Counter & in a Car

Kindness Behind a Counter
Last night I went into a sandwich shop on the way to a meeting and as I thanked the cashier and turned to find a table to eat my HEALTHY (thank you Mimi and Gina!) sandwich, the cashier yelled “Wait!”. I turned back toward her and she pointed at my feet and said “Twenty”. Sure enough, I’d dropped a twenty dollar bill as I juggled a bunch of stuff trying to put the change back into my wallet. I hadn’t noticed. Thankfully for me, she had, and had a kind heart.

Kindness in a Car
A close friend named Tom recently had extra tickets to see a ball game and invited me to come along. Thank you, Tom! We were waiting in one of two parallel lines of cars (one for people with free parking passes–the one we were in–and the other for people who would have to pay $30 to park their cars). When we were only one car away from the entrance Tom remembered that he had a second free parking pass that expired that day. He honked his horn to the car next to us and I gestured to the other driver to please roll down his window. When he did, Tom asked if he would like a free parking pass. The driver gave a big smile to us as he shook his head with an enthusiastic yes. I jumped out of Tom’s car, gave it to the driver, and said he could cut in front of us so he could be in the parking pass lane. Later as we parked and walked through the lot toward the stadium, the driver and his wife found and thanked us for the kindness. It was a great way for all four of us to start the game!

Russ

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Another masterpiece of a post by Gina. Need I say more?
Russ

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