In my recent post, “Blowing the Dust Away” I used the phrase, “…investing time together”
A reader commented in part, “I think investing in our valued relationships is a great way to put it.” (Thank you, Cathy!)
That got me to thinking…
Yes, I’ve learned that investing in my relationships is an important thing to do–otherwise I pay for it later in many ways, and the late charges and other penalties can be very steep indeed.
That goes for romantic relationships, raising (I’ve never liked the so-called more correct term “rearing”) children, and friendships.
I know that you wise readers know that I’m not referring to monetary investments or costs here. Time, attention, love, caring, commitment, focus, etc, are far more important investments than mere money.
And this is coming from an investment manager who understands a thing or two about Return On Investment and Risk-to-Reward ratios!
Russ Towne's A Grateful Man 
Investing in relationships – I love it! Such an essential endeavour to remember as primary. We must not become complacent and take anyone for granted. Not unless we want the return to decrease! 😀
So true, my dear friend Gina!
Russ
You’re welcome, Russ! I love the term. I think the first time I heard of something similar was in Steven Covey’s famous book “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.” He called it the “emotional bank account,” and it always made sense to me. You have to make deposits in the emotional bank account and someday you may need to make a withdrawal, but you always want to stay in the black!
Hugs,
Cathy
Yes, I believe in the “Emotional Bank Account” concept too. Thank you for inspiring this post with your comment Cathy!
Russ