One Of My Heroes and a Quote That Helps To Explain Why

“As I walked out the door toward my freedom I knew that if I did not leave all the anger, hatred and bitterness behind that I would still be in prison.” –Nelson Mandela (Source: Online Wellness Network)

A wise man indeed!


About russtowne

My wife and I have been married since 1979. We have 3 adult children and 4 young grandsons. I manage a wealth management firm I founded in 2003. My Beloved is a Special Education teacher for Kindergartners and First Graders. I'm a published author of 23 books in a variety of genres for grownups and children. In addition to my family, friends, investing, and writing, my passions include reading, watching classic movies, experiencing waves crashing on rocky shores, hiking in ancient redwood forests, and enjoying our small redwood grove and fern garden.
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10 Responses to One Of My Heroes and a Quote That Helps To Explain Why

  1. gita4elamats says:

    How do you do that – leave it behind?

    • russtowne says:

      When one realizes that hatred, bitterness, and anger, are too heavy a burden to bear, and can consume and destroy their life, spirit, soul, and future–and they truly get that down to their core–then it becomes a choice. Wanting to is not good enough. Neither is false forgiveness, nor the “I want to forgive but I can’t” approach. Only true forgiveness, and moving on, is what it takes to break free from the internal chains and prisons that humans so often create for themselves. I have been stuck in such places until I realized I was only hurting myself, and I decided that I wanted to be happy and free of the terrible burdens of hatred, bitterness, and anger, that I did one of the most wonderful things I’ve ever done FOR MYSELF. I forgave. I wanted and needed to be happy, more than I wanted and needed to cling to my hatred, bitterness,and anger.

      Full disclosure: While my hatred and bitterness are gone and hopefully will never return, I still sometimes briefly get angry at the actions, attitudes, or words, of myself or others. I’m not anger-free, just mostly anger-free. And the bouts of anger rarely last more than a few seconds or minutes. I’m still a work in progress, but considering where I started, I feel great about how far I’ve come.


  2. Reblogged this on In The Prophetic Ministries and commented:
    It is beautiful to be under grace. We don’t deserve it. Peace is the answer to our storms, love, and most of all forgiveness.

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