Getting Positive Emotions to Occur

A reader recently asked: “How do you get positive emotions to appear?”

Here are some of the things I do when I want to go from negativity to positivity. I:

Smile (even when I don’t feel like it.)

Watch a comedy with a happy ending to help put laughter back into my life.

Read blogs of people whose posts warm my heart.

Count my blessings.

Spend time with people I love.

Read an inspiring or uplifting book.

Go out in nature and sit and take it all in.

Stop and take time to breathe deeply and think of things that are going right in my life and world.

Take a moment to think of all of the miraculous things that are going on in my body every microsecond.

Read inspiring quotes and affirmations.

Call a friend.

Perform a kindness.

Unclutter a part of my life such as clean off my desk.

Russ

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About russtowne

I'm awed by the beauty of nature and the power of love and gratitude. Some of my favorite sensory experiences include waves crashing on rocky shores, waterways in ancient redwood and fern-filled forests, and rain. My wife and I have been married since 1979. We have 3 adult children and 5 grandchildren. I manage a wealth management firm that I founded in 2003. My Beloved is a Special Education teacher for Kindergartners and First Graders. I'm a published author of approximately 60 books in a variety of genres for grownups and children.
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13 Responses to Getting Positive Emotions to Occur

  1. Cathy Ulrich's avatar Cathy Ulrich says:

    I so agree, Russ. When I read your list, many of the suggestions are versions of gratitude, which I feel is the best place from which to raise one’s vibration. Does it for me every time. Thanks for this great post and reminder. Hugs, Cathy

    • russtowne's avatar russtowne says:

      Thank you for your comment, Cathy. Although I knew that some were, I hadn’t noticed that many of the suggestions are expressions of gratitude. Thank you for bringing that to my attention. It makes sense to me. I just hadn’t framed it in my mind in that way before.

      Russ

  2. Elyse's avatar Elyse says:

    I’d feel quite positive if you would clean off my desk, too Russ!

  3. Kristi's avatar mindfuldiary says:

    Inspiring post, Russ! Will remember counting the blessings.

    • russtowne's avatar russtowne says:

      Thank you. I believe that most people could come up with a list of hundreds of blessings if they took the time to think about them.

      Some of my greatest blessings sure didn’t feel like blessings at the time they happened. For example, having my fiance’ leave me for another man was devastating at the time, but about a year later my Beloved came into my life–and has made it better ever since. Had I been married to my original fiance’ I’d have missed the love of my life.

      I encourage people to take another, closer look at events and experiences that they’ve carried in their minds as some of their biggest or worst “disasters”, “failures”, and “heart-breaks”.

      I believe that when people do this they are likely to find that some of their greatest blessings and gifts ultimately came from such painful experiences.

      Sometimes it just takes awhile and an open mind to find out what good came from them.

      In such awareness, gratitude grows.

      Russ

  4. Andrea Smyth's avatar Andrea Kelly says:

    Lovely reminders! Thanks Russ!

  5. greyz14's avatar greyz14 says:

    Thanks Russ for this wonderful reply!

  6. russtowne's avatar russtowne says:

    It was my pleasure Andrea and greyz14!
    Russ

  7. Judy's avatar judysp says:

    great post 🙂

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