I just received my first rejection letter from a literary agent! That makes me feel somehow more official as an author. I wrote “Rejection #1” and hung it on my writing room wall. Methinks it’ll soon have plenty of company.
With Love,
Russ
I just received my first rejection letter from a literary agent! That makes me feel somehow more official as an author. I wrote “Rejection #1” and hung it on my writing room wall. Methinks it’ll soon have plenty of company.
With Love,
Russ
YES!! Good for you, I keep mine too lol! Great minds think alike I guess. The more you query – the more rejections you get. Prof you’ve done much, and motivation to do more 🙂 keep it up my friend, and so will I 🙂
Thank you, Didi! I view agent queries as a farmer views planting seeds. Many seeds must be planted, and many won’t grow, but we only need one to potentially reap a bountiful harvest. May your harvest be bountiful indeed!
Russ
Love it!
Sorry to hear it, Russ. Was it handwritten or a form letter?
It was a very polite form letter which included a “don’t give up!” message. She answered in three days (which I believe is about a month faster than average) and many agents don’t acknowledge a query at all, saying, If you don’t hear from me in X weeks/months I’m not interested.” In essence, “If your phone’s not ringing, it’s me not calling.” Some agencies get hundreds of queries per week, so I understand that writing personalized rejection letters would take up too much of the time that they could be pitching books to publishers and reading more queries.
Russ
Thank you, Russ. I’ve seen some rejection form letters where someone adds a couple words with pen , a short personal note too.
I would especially appreciate receiving such a note from them, Tess. It would help me to learn and adjust so the next time I query them I’ll be more likely to have what they want. I understand why most don’t do that, but it would just make me appreciate the ones who do all the more.
Russ
Exactly. That’s what everyone would like but these guys and gals are super busy. Sigh.
The upside is that when an agent who doesn’t send personalized rejection letters to everyone represents me, she will spend more time pitching my books than she would if she spent most of her time sending those letters. I said “she” because it appears to me that over 90% of the agents who represent my primary genre are women (which didn’t surprise me.)
Russ
Sounds as though you are having the time of your life!
Thank you, Annette! I focus on making every moment be the time of my life. I certainly don’t always succeed, and sometimes miserably fail, but having that focus has helped me to create a life that often comes dangerously close to blissful.
Russ
Ah, I have a collection growing! You have a great attitude! Keep writing and inspiring!
Thank you for your encouragement, Martha. I don’t feel alone in this mostly solitary profession largely due to people such as you who take the time to communicate with and encourage me. What a wonderful blessing to have.
Russ
Amen Russ!
I read the first line and felt the sting but your attitude is so fantastic that I realized your approach is a much healthier one. 😀
Thank you, Mrs P. Rejection letters can be kind of like the rain. I can either choose to love or curse them, but both are going to come either way. The rejections and rain don’t care. I might as well dance and sing in them, and splash in the puddles, reveling in each moment.
Russ
😀 😀
Funny enough Russ, when I read that the first thing I thought was “SUCH VALIDATION!!!” 🙂
LOL! It does feel like validation, Colleen! I now share something in common with some of the world’s best authors. (And many of the world’s worst ones too, but I like to look on the positive side of things.)
Russ
I like your original take on it. Some of the world’s BEST authors, you are now in a league with them. 🙂
i think this is a wonderful first step as you follow the path you were meant to walk. i love that you are posting it!
“…as you follow the path you were meant to walk.” I love that! Thank you for your encouragement, Beth!
Russ
Sorry to hear that, but I love your attitude. Keep collecting them… 🙂 You never know what happens!
Thank you, Ute. I’m a storyteller. Which story is more interesting, “I got agency representation after 10 rejections”, or “I got agency representations after 100 rejections”?
;-D! On the other hand, never getting agency representation no matter how many rejections I send out would not only not be an interesting story, it would, uh, what’s a polite word for “SUCK?”
Russ
Indeed 🙂
Someday that literary agent will be very sorry! Keep the queries going. You’ll find a wise one.
Thank you for your kind and encouraging message, Jan! It brought a smile to my face.
Russ
Not good, kinda sucks but keep on trying
I plan to Joanne. Thank you for your comment.
Russ
❤ your perspective! Just one more step towards your goal!
Thank you! At first I was a bit intimidated to expose my babies to strangers who see hundreds of stories every week, but after the first queries, I’ve discovered somewhat to my surprise that I’m not only learning a lot, I’m actually having fun! And my confidence is gradually growing. Of course that may change after the first couple hundred rejections! ;-D!
Russ
That’s awesome Russ! And all you have to remember is that all the great writers have had at least 100 rejection letters before their masterpiece was accepted! 😉
Good attitude. I’ll dig my first one up and do the same.
Thank you, Brandon. If/when I get signed, I plan to frame my first rejection letter and keep it on a wall in my writing room as a reminder to take nothing for granted and of a milestone reached on a journey that won’t end while I’m still breathing. Good luck on your journey.
Russ
I would have run out of wall space by now!
I can relate. If you count “Timed-Outs” as rejections, I have a perfect score: 68 queries and 68 rejections. Hang in there. I wish you an ever-growing readership base.
Russ