In my last post I mentioned some things I want to expand a bit on.
I believe that attempts to quickly end suffering (or just go numb for a while because the pain is so bad) often leads to addictions and temporary solutions, both of which only lead to prolonging suffering. I find it interesting that whether talking about pain, fear, grief, shame, or other growth areas, the way out is often through.
And the “knowing” I alluded to in my earlier post, is the knowing much more about myself, the confidence that comes from knowing I have the proven ability to survive such experiences and emerge stronger on the other side, and the knowing as to how much better life is once I’ve made it to the other side of the growth experience.
I love the imagery and message of a saying I keep close to my heart, that paraphrased goes something like: “We’re here to help walk each other home.” Thank you for being there for me on my long–yet also ever-so-short–walk home. May you experience the gifts from me that I’ve received from you along the way.
With Love,
Russ
Russ Towne's A Grateful Man 
Reminds me of a Zen proverb: “The obstacle is the way”
I don’t recall hearing that before but I like it, Val!
Russ
Yes .. good insight Russ… trying to avoid this issues or trials in life, doesn’t work. The only way to get to the other side is through the obstacles in our path.. Diane
Thank you for your comment and insights, Diane.
Russ
Wonderful just saying
Thank you, Joanne.
Russ
I love this image too Russ, that you just shared. Our journey here is a walk home. Love it.
Thank you for making my walk more pleasant.
Russ
🙂 You’re very welcome Russ.
Until we are in the midst of going ‘through,’ this saying might not make sense. Once we’ve emerged on the other side we know Mark Twain knew exactly what he was talking about!!
Mark Twain had much wisdom. I’ve often ordered at the life he must have led to have had so much wisdom. To which of his comments do you refer?
Russ
I always thought “The best way out is through” was attributed to him, so that’s what I was referring to.
You’re probably right, Denise. Thank you for clarifying.
Russ