“All You Need Is Love” Isn’t True!

While the Beatle’s song “All You Need Is Love” is a beautiful song and I WISH it were true, it simply isn’t.

Maybe it seems that way for people who have many material possessions, but there have been times in my life where it wasn’t clear where my next meal was going to come from. At that point, love and A LITTLE FOOD was all I needed.

Then, to pay for the roof over my head love and SOME MONEY were all that I needed.

Changing the subject a bit, I’ve loved people who didn’t love me back no matter how much love I had for them and how hard I tried to be worthy of their love or to make them love me back.

MY love wasn’t all I needed. I needed THEIR love too.

The song didn’t mention that tiny, itty bitty detail.

And what about air? (I know now I’m just getting silly, but air to breathe is kind of important, doncha think?)
There was a time when I had major lung problems when I truly understood at a very visceral level just how important air is.

I don’t want to speak for others, so I’ll say that for these reasons, I don’t believe that love is all I need.

But any time I’ve felt without love– no matter what my financial condition–I felt very poor indeed.

And with love I often felt much richer than a net worth statement would have shown.

So, given my druthers, I’d choose love over anything else—-including life itself.

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About russtowne

I'm awed by the beauty of nature and the power of love and gratitude. Some of my favorite sensory experiences include waves crashing on rocky shores, waterways in ancient redwood and fern-filled forests, and rain. My wife and I have been married since 1979. We have 3 adult children and 5 grandchildren. I manage a wealth management firm that I founded in 2003. My Beloved is a Special Education teacher for Kindergartners and First Graders. I'm a published author of approximately 60 books in a variety of genres for grownups and children.
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6 Responses to “All You Need Is Love” Isn’t True!

  1. russtowne's avatar russtowne says:

    Thank you, Boomie. I enjoy reading your posts too!

    Russ

  2. Cathy Ulrich's avatar Cathy Ulrich says:

    or as they also say, “Love makes the world go ’round!” Love it, Russ! 🙂 Cathy

  3. russtowne's avatar russtowne says:

    Yup! I’m less fond of the “All’s fair in love and war” saying–perhaps ‘cuz I was too often out-gunned
    — but I certainly understand why it was said!

    Thank you for your comment, Cathy!

    Russ

  4. Nora's avatar Nora says:

    Wonderfully stated. Thank you for sharing!

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